Force shutdown message softened; symlink cycles ignored in cache

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What's Changed

Changelog

• release(turborepo): 2.9.19-canary.8 by @github-actions[bot] in https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/pull/13103
• fix: Upgrade tsdown in kitchen-sink api to fix dev script by @anthonyshew in https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/pull/13105
• fix: Soften force shutdown message by @anthonyshew in https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/pull/13104
• fix: Thread allow_no_package_manager to daemon and watcher by @kitten in https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/pull/13091
• fix: Preserve bun patchedDependencies during prune by @anthonyshew in https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/pull/13106
• fix: Ignore symlink cycles when caching outputs by @anthonyshew in https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/pull/13107

Full Changelog: https://github.com/vercel/turborepo/compare/v2.9.19-canary.8...v2.9.19-canary.9